Are You Growing or Just Hiding In Your Growth
You’ve done the work. You know the language. You understand your nervous system, you’ve read the books, you’ve been in the rooms. And there is still something you are not doing. A conversation you’re not having. A boundary you’re not holding. A version of yourself you keep preparing for but never quite stepping into.
This episode is for you.
Kim gets honest in this one — sharing the story of a client situation she avoided for weeks, knowing exactly what needed to be said and choosing not to say it anyway. Not because she didn’t know better. Because she was afraid of the reaction on the other side of that conversation. And she was using everything she knew to make the avoidance sound reasonable.
Sound familiar?
There is a real difference between growing and running. And from the outside they can look identical. Same vocabulary, same commitment, same dedication to the journey. The difference isn’t what it looks like. The difference is what it’s pointed away from.
Real growth will always eventually point you toward the uncomfortable thing. If yours keeps circling around it — giving you new reasons why you’re not ready yet — that’s not growth. That’s a very intelligent nervous system keeping you exactly where you are.
In this episode Kim breaks down three honest questions to help you figure out which one you’re actually doing right now — and what it really costs you every day you choose the processing over the doing.
What we get into:
Why being in the work and doing the work are not the same thing — the conversation you’ve been avoiding and what it’s actually costing you to stay quiet — how self-awareness becomes a hiding place — why you will never feel fully ready and what to do about that — and the three questions that will show you exactly where the running lives in your own life
Connect with Kim:
Instagram: @ownyourshift_kim
Website: ownyourshiftwithkim.com
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