Ayahuasca Part 2: Ego Death, Healing Trauma & The Night I Realized I Was Dying While Helping Everyone Else

In Part 2 of my ayahuasca experience in Costa Rica, we go deeper.
If you haven’t listened to Part 1, go back and start there. This episode covers Night 2 and Night 3 of ceremony — the nights that completely changed how I see myself, my purpose, and my past.
This is where things got real.
In this episode, I share:
What happened when I started “helping” everyone else during ceremony — and watched myself die piece by piece
The powerful message I received about martyrdom, self-sacrifice, and why helping from an empty cup will destroy you
The moment the shamans told me, “That’s how you know you’re a healer.”
Why Night 3 (Feminine Night) broke me open in a way I never expected
The 3-hour emotional release that felt like decades of suppressed grief leaving my body
What it was like to revisit childhood trauma without reliving it
The moment I finally received clarity about my past and why that closure mattered
How physical purging connected directly to emotional release
Why integration matters more than the ceremony itself
This episode is raw. It’s vulnerable. And for some, it may feel confronting.
I am not advocating for plant medicine. I’m sharing my lived experience — what it taught me, what it showed me, and how it reshaped my understanding of healing.
One of the biggest realizations from Night 2:
You cannot save everyone while abandoning yourself.
It will cost you more than you think.
And from Night 3:
Closure doesn’t always come from forgetting.
Sometimes it comes from finally seeing the truth without fear.
If you’ve ever:
Struggled with putting yourself last
Felt called to healing work but doubted yourself
Carried trauma you thought you already “worked through”
Or wondered what ego death and deep emotional release actually feel like
This episode will resonate.
Part 3 (Night 4 + Long-Term Integration) is coming next — where I share what actually stuck two years later and how this experience changed the trajectory of my life.
If this episode speaks to you, send me a DM on Instagram: @ownyourshift_kim
I would love to hear your thoughts or your experience.
Until next time — keep owning your shift.


